How to improve your relationship - 4 Simple ways for a better relationship

Even though my husband and I have had nine years of relationship combining before and after marriage, we still have fights, and I still expect him to make efforts and express his love. I am guessing it is the same for most of us.

It does not matter how experienced we are in our relationship; we always feel like our partner does not get us. But, if we have expectations of our partner, it does indicate that we still have hope and faith in our relationship. If we were to give up on our partner, it may be a concern.

It doesn’t matter how long we have been in that relationship, whether you just started dating or have been married for a long time and have kids, you always have to make efforts for a long-lasting relationship.

We always have disagreements, arguments, and disappointments in our relationships; rather than dismissing them and making compromises, we ought to strive to improve on them.

So here are a few tips that I believe helped in our relationship, and I hope they will help yours too.

1. Sit down and have a talk regularly

The first and most important tip I would give to anyone in a relationship is to talk as much as you can. Communication is a vital part of any relationship; if you don’t communicate with your partner enough, it may damage yours.

When I say communicate, I am not talking about only serious and formal conversations; all you have to do is just sit down, unwind, and have a casual talk. You don’t have to set aside a special time for talking alone; it can be done in parallel with your daily routine.

For instance, my husband and I have a cup of tea each morning and evening. During our tea time, we sit on the balcony and have a chat while sipping our tea; this is a daily routine for us.

So instead of spending too much time scrolling through your phone and watching TV, make it a habit to spend some quality time with your partner daily while indulging in activities you both relish.

2. Go on dates

I love the sound of going on a date. We normally go out a lot, but when we set the date intentionally and plan for it, it feels so different. You can actually feel the difference by trying it out.

First, you go out casually, then go by setting up the date consciously. Take photos of yourself on both days and review them after a few days. Looking back on your date memories will undoubtedly give you butterflies.

Go on dates and trips as often as possible because it will greatly improve your love life. So don't ponder too much; just go out and visit the places you like, try your favorite food, and spend time doing the things you enjoy doing together.

What could be better than experiencing and exploring the world together as a couple?

3. Have meals together

Food connects people together. By bringing the family together over meals, you also strengthen your bond. Remember? In the beginning, I advised you to sit and talk; you can work on it while eating.

I can understand that it may not be possible to have all three meals together, but you shouldn't worry; all you need to do is make time for one meal a day. Dinner time is ideal because, after a long working day, you and your partner can sit back peacefully and have dinner while talking about each other’s days.

4. Gift each other

Don’t get me wrong; gifts don’t have to be expensive. A few lovely flowers or cooking their favorite meal can be more than enough to make your partner feel special and loved.

Remember the special occasions and prepare something that your partner will love. Making efforts in a relationship is the main principle.

Make an effort to understand your partner, to care for them, to know what they want, and to know how they are feeling.

Your relationship may begin to deteriorate if you stop putting out an effort and start taking your partner for granted.

It's never too late or early to work on your relationship, so use these easy suggestions to make your relationship stronger and happier.